transcend

根據《柯林斯英漢雙解大詞典 》：

V-T Something that transcends normal limits or boundaries goes beyond them, because it is more significant than them. 超越 ^[1] 

So how do you transcend looking for someone better and yet different than what you had in the family?

那麼，你又如何超越，去尋找更好的、且不同於家人的經驗所得的那一位呢？

When you can transcend the limitations of these senses and achieve a higher level of consciousness, you are leaving the "horses" behind - "flying over them".

當你能夠超越這些限制，達到一個更高的意識階段時，你就離開了在你身後的“馬兒”，“飛過了他們”。

I think our female desire is for emotional connection to transcend that inescapable loneliness of being a human being, and theirs is physical, so they go to these places where someone will touch them.

我想，每個人都有那種無處躲藏的孤獨感——女性想超越這種孤獨，所以她們渴望感情；而男人則渴望肉體，所以他們去那些地方，那裏有人會觸摸他們。