裸婚

我在新浪以“介末開門”之名開博，連載自己的婚姻生活。飆升的點擊率膨脹了我的虛榮心，我志得意滿地準備出書吹噓自己的幸福生活。出書的事還未見眉目，我離婚了，以雪崩的速度。我*次真正領略了生活的荒誕，簡直想笑。

接下來的兩年時間，我寫了一出話劇，編了一本雜誌，又談了一次熱情的戀愛結了一次婚，出書的事情順理成章地被耽擱下來。一方面是沒精力，另一方面是心裏躊躇：這東西有人看麼？在朋友的慫恿下，我決定還是寫下來再説，既然對婚姻有了新的感悟，又有了閒，況且一吐為快的慾望又像狗一樣在後面猛追。

等到動筆的時候才覺得是自討苦吃：因為是真人真事，所以既不能醜化別人，又不能美化自己；寫得太狠，對不起自己；寫得不狠，也對不起自己。我被迫用更為冷靜客觀的眼光再次打量當年的往事，並正視自己不願正視的所有缺陷，老實交待自己的錯誤和感悟。

本書是作者介末完全真實的個人經歷，但也不是自傳，畢竟這只是介末不足十年的個人經歷，雖然客觀真實，但只截取了與婚姻相關的片段，還不能作為全面瞭解一個人的標準。給婚姻撒上一把“介末”，讓人感受超刺激又淚流滿面的生活。不粉飾、不矯情、不誇張，一個睿智的女人帶你學會生活、婚姻哲學。

The author started her bolg on Sina Weibo, entitled “Jie Mo open the door”, serialized publication of her Six Years of Marriage, which received over 1.6 million hits. As the number of hits soared, Jie Mo began to prepare for publication and bragged about how lucky her life was. But before much progress could be made, she got divorced. It all happened with the speed of an avalanche...

Real Marriage is a delightful documentation of the narrative contradictions that fuel not only the complex human emotion of love, but also the idiosuncrasies that can be seen in contemporary Chinese married life.

As the events in this book unfold before you, you feel confused, you feel despair,etc. But more importantly, these feelings leave you with laughter.

Contents

Foreword Summons and Meditations 5

Six Years of Marriage 1

Seven-Year Itch 67

Age of Being Single 259

介末，一個用生命換文字的“當代三毛”。 媒體人，行走世界。 2006年起，以“芥末開門”為名在新浪開博，連載《結婚六年》，訪問量超過160萬。 相信人生是場修行，生命沒有邊界。 認為做人的境界是無意。無“意”，便無“不如意”。 因為“幸福”二字太過刻意，所以追求永恆的自由與平靜。

Jie Mo, who converts life into the written word. Her work in media has taken her around the world and in 2006 she became famous on Sina Weibo for her serialized publication of Six Years of Marriage, which received over 1.6 million hits. She believes that the world is a place for self-cultivation, that life has no boundaries. To her, life is best lived without intentions. Being "happy and blessed" in the traditional sense is too meticulous for her liking. Instead, she devotes her time to pursuing everlasting peace and tranquility.